Questions About Love

Shilpi Agarwal
2 min readFeb 27, 2024
Photo by Ilkka Kärkkäinen on Unsplash

Is love constant, or is it ever-changing?

Do we love people for who they are, or are we just supposed to love certain people for what they are to us?

Is love distance bound?
Is love strong if we live close enough to the person we love, or does it fade away with distance? Does distance really make the heart grow fonder or just makes you forget the person slowly, gradually?

Is love time bound?
Do we love someone more because they are new in our life, or it remains the same, or does it in fact grow with time? Is it love that grows with time or do people just become an “old habit”, an obligation that one needs to fulfill?

Is love something eternal, or is it a concept we humans created to live in a structure, a society?

Is love care and affection, or lust and desire? Is it both, or can it still exist if one is missing?

Can love ever be unconditional? Can one ever love someone the same way throughout?

Do we all feel love the same way, or it entirely depends on who we are?

If love is so uncertain and variable, why is it generalized? Why there is a constant definition for it?

Is love an emotion, or a need? Is it the same as anger, or is it more like breathing?

Is love ethereal, or eternal? Does it depend on the lover, or the loved one?

Is love just a belief like God for us to believe in something which is bigger than us – something to put our faith in, or is it truly real?

What is love? Is it none or all of it?

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Shilpi Agarwal

Writing helps me declutter my thoughts and see clearly. I write to learn!